How To Know If A Man Is Right

It honestly starts with where you meet the guy. If you meeting guys at the clubs that could be part of the problem. I'm not saying that it is against all codes to meet a guy here and look for success, but the chances of it being something good is slim. Why? Because many of these guys are looking for something that you are not looking for. If you looking for an extended relationship then these probably not the guys for you. These guys are about having fun. They are also looking for a girl in many cases but not in the club. They're looking to have a good time. At the club there is also other things that are factoring in when you meet someone. It is dark so you can barely see that person, and alcohol can alter your vision just a bit. So the next day when you get that call you may be a bit confuse on how he looked, or he may be a bit confuse on how you look. Also there is very little chance for communication here because of the type of venue. So basically you are just exchanging numbers without even knowing much about one another.

So once you pass the stage of actually meeting a guy you must open yourself up. Women must learn how to accept a guy for what he is before she want to start changing him. It is important to not look for perfection or imperfections. Allow a man to show you what he is about without trying to dig so deep you hurt your brain. It is very easy for a man to hide his flaws especially if you are trying to crack them. As a woman it's important that you just let a man be a man, and all the rest will show up at some point. May not be when you want it to but it will. Often women try too hard to try to catch a guy in a lie or perhaps examine the exact intent of every word that he has spoken when they first begin dating. Ladies, I must tell you that many men are very good at telling a woman what she wants to hear when it's just for a short time or to get what they want. So that lead me to one of the ways that can help determine if a guy is for you. It is important to observe a man in a argument or when he is upset.

In these moments that he feels overwhelmed you will be able to see how he manage himself because he will be showing you how he handle raw emotions.

Perhaps he becomes extremely sarcastic?
 Try to hurt you on purpose?

Does he become withdrawn and not want to speak with you for hours or days?
 Ignore your phone calls?

Does he lash out and attack you when he's upset?

Does he realize how upset he is and make an attempt to try and resolve a conflict?

I honestly feel that a relationship don't really starts until the first major argument. Man is not only suppose to make women feel wonderful but also allow them to feel safe. It is easy for a man to make a woman feel special. It is much harder for a man to not become harsh with a woman when he is upset so she feels safe. A man that can control his emotions to allow a woman to feel safe at all times have potential to be a keeper. When a man can make you feel both, you've got something special. How a man responds when he is upset will determine how safe you feel with him. Without that security of knowing that he is strong enough to not punish you harshly when he is upset will allow you to be able to trust him the way you or he wants.

 Women smile and say hi to men who pass your way. Try it for a week. Don't do in the club...lol...Try it for a week. All type of guys will come up to you if you having trouble with getting guys to come up to you. It will make you seem more friendlier and approachable.