The beginning of an Relationship

The beginning of any relationship is very critical. There is a 50/50 split on where things can turn. You may like the person one day, and just as easily you can despise that person the next. Why? This is because you are trying to figure that person out. You are interested to see what they are about, and if they can help better you. Many people always concentrate only on the positive things at the beginning of any relationship. It is very important that if you are really trying to meet someone then you put in the effort to learn that person. It's important to not only focus on the positive, but also the negative ways to a person. ***Get to know the true them***. This is accomplished by spending valuable time with someone. There is no way that you can actually learn someone without spending quality time trying to get to know them. Often the last thing you want to do is just hop into a relationship with someone. Good example would be like taking an exam. If you meet a person out at a dinner on a Monday there is only so much you will learn that night, and most likely you will not learn anything on their dark side. If you started to study for an exam on Monday you will take in a lot. YES! You will take in many of the topics that you find to be easy to grasp because as you dig deep it gets harder. Tuesday you decide to catch up with that special person because you felt so connected, and before going out for a movie you decide to study a bit more. Tuesday is a good night! You learn and You learn..lol....Now for the next week you decide that you want to stop studying, and that you not going to contact that special person. This is where the problem come in with time....Why? Well because you did not put no time in studying you have lapse and most likely forgotten everything that you had studied, and you probably forgotten what this special person look like. Now they feel like you on games and is starting to question you as a person, and you feel dumb because you just wasted a week of your life. With both of these cases time spent could have at least saved one of them if had you studied or spent time with the person. These are the types of topics I will discuss. There is a lot of information that I could share to both women and men, and I am very excited to get started with blog.